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Grandparents and grandchildren have real, measurable effects on each other鈥檚 psychological well-being long into grandchildren鈥檚 adulthood, according to a study conducted by the American Sociological Association (ASA). The study also suggests several efforts parents can take to enhance this relationship between their own parents and their kids.

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1. 听Suggest grandparents share family stories with your children. Children at all ages are fascinated by family history and cherish vivid anecdotes that educate and entertain. Sharing 鈥渨hen I was your age鈥︹�� stories are always a great place to start as these stories tend to be the most remembered and passed on.鈥ㄢ��

2. 听Remind your children to always tell their grandparents 鈥淭hanks鈥� and encourage them to make thank you drawings and notes when they receive gifts. All people benefit from feeling recognized, worthwhile and loved.

3. 听Encourage your children write to their grandparents (old-school) and send notes, cards, and drawings. Putting effort into a hand-written card or drawing reflects time, effort, and thoughtfulness. And it鈥檚 still a special surprise for grandparents to receive notes in the mailbox.

4. 听Children and grandparents can also connect through technology, and if grandparents aren鈥檛 comfortable online, grandkids can help them learn the new school. Kids and grandparents will enjoy the bond created as they share and look at family photos online or connect on Skype - a great way to keep in touch when you don鈥檛 live in the same town.

5. 听Encourage your children and parents to share their hobbies and interests with each other. While times have certainly changed, we share plenty of common pastimes. Watching ball games, cooking together, or going for a nature walk never goes out of style. When kids and grandparents find common interests, their bond will grow.