Authentic Identity Work in a Culture of Self-Reflection

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You know Im only 4, right?泭
Sadie is a 5-year-old with many titles: older sister to two younger brothers, avid artist, confident singer, vibrant dancer, and free spirit. Sadie has big feelings and lots of love for the people she cares about, and each day, her smile and energy fill the room with excitement. Today, she and Ms. Maggie are speaking about who Sadie is and how she sees herselfher identity. At one point in the conversation, Sadie straightens up in her chair, leans close to Ms. Maggies ear, and confidently whispers, You know Im only 4, right? I need people to remember that.泭泭
Externally, Ms. Maggie raises her eyebrows in question; however, she is truly in awe. Sadie continues,泭Well, Im trying really hard to do things on my own, but sometimes I just want to be picked up. But when I turn 5, I think Ill be too big to be picked up. Oh, but did you know that泭when I turn 10, Ill probably lose my tooth, and the tooth fairy will come?泭So maybe it wont be so bad if I dont get picked up anymore.泭But for now, Im only 4, okay?泭泭
She nods approvingly and adds a few more hearts to the page shes working on while humming an original song that, knowing Sadie, she is confident will be the next classroom hit.泭泭
As teachers of 4- and 5-year-olds at a Reggio Emilia-inspired early childhood education program, we are always looking for ways to guide children in conversations about themselves, others, and the world. These are key components of ones identity, which starts to form in a childs earliest years (UNCRC 2005).泭泭
At the beginning of the 2023 school year, we decided to use self-portraiture to introduce these discussions. However, things went a little differently than泭we planned.泭
It is October, and we are staring at a round table placed in the center of our classroom, feeling anxious and uneasy about what lies before us: two double-sided mirrors, black fine-tipped pens, and 4- by 6-inch rectangles of white cardstock.泭 This is our sincere attempt at a provocation to draw a self-portrait, and because childrens identity development is so important, we want to get it right.泭
A child approaches the scene, looks on briefly, then wordlessly turns away and walks elsewhere. We panic, grab the materials on the table, and replace them with a set of magnetic tiles. We share a mutual nod of agreement, Were not ready!泭泭
As if on cue, three children run over as we finish setting up the base of a tile tower. Were just not ready yet, Vaidehi amends, as children build and build, all the way up to the ceiling of our classroom.泭泭
Entry Points: Starting with the Wide World Around Us泭
Following that anxiety-filled October morning, we decided to search for entry points, or places where the childrens interests might lead us into exploring new ideas. A few weeks later, we received an unexpected gift from one of our families: a paper wasps nest they found during a neighborhood walk. We put it on the table and added some magnifying glasses and mark-making materials. It was immediately evident that the children were fascinated. Eventually, we extended their engagement by using a digital microscope and projector that allowed us to see the nest up close and in detail.泭泭
This experience prompted the children to take an even closer look at the living things outside. As the season shifted, they began to take walks with Ben, our studio teacher, whose enthusiasm and insight about creatures and critters supported our emergent curriculum as it developed along unexpected and exciting paths. The children began regularly searching for new creatures, attempting to identify familiar ones, and imagining and building shelters and homes that they thought the animals might enjoy. We were eager to support the childrens intense interest and decided a trip to our school library was in order.泭
One of the most influential finds from our library was a book called Incredible Animals, by Dunia Rahwan and illustrated by烈aola Formica. In it, each animal has泭unique superpowersflying, swimming, and echolocation,泭to name just a few. These superpowers make them special. The泭book was a hit, and we revisited it day after day, week after week, building on our and the children's enthusiasm with new information.泭泭
The children imagined what it might be like to have these traits themselves. We soon found that these conversations (typically held during our whole-class gatherings) became entry points for discussions about perspective taking and recognizing and appreciating differences. Just like the animals in the book, we talked about how each member of our community had special and unique qualities that could be considered superpowers. When we asked the children what their superpowers were, their answers included everything from extra strong to "being a good friend. Over time, these dialogues, which泭focused on our泭uniqueness泭and the strengths that泭each of us shared with泭our community, became commonplace. Incredible Animals was powerfuland so, inspired by this book, we decided to make our own text.泭
The Dinosaur Guidebook, as it eventually became泭known, was born of the childrens interests in creatures and animals, our class's泭interactions with informational texts, and a growing appreciation for a diversity of泭appearances, abilities, and lived experiences within泭our class and school communities. Inspired by our Reggio Emilia-inspired approach, we supported and encouraged the children to research, design, write, and illustrate the book mostly by themselves.泭泭
By the time winter had begun in earnest, and the childrens knowledge of one another, themselves, and our communal norms had deepened. With the childrens insight, we identified the tasks necessary for bookmakingresearch, illustration, writing, cover designthen invited the children to opt into task-specific teams based on their interests. In these groups, the children brainstormed what they knew and what they needed to learn more about. They also identified strengths within themselves and their peers泭that helped the team as a whole. When inevitable challenges arose, like figuring out exactly where to find answers to tough questions, the children were able to corral their resources and find solutions that led them to reach out to other teams, other teachers and children in our school, and泭beyond. They even created a podcastbut that, perhaps, is a story for another time!泭
Giving Identity Another Go泭
By March, we finally felt ready to dive into泭investigations of identity and portraiture, which had felt泭foundational to our teaching practice and had intrigued us since泭early泭fall. We泭began anew with two anchor textsThe Heart of a Boy: Celebrating the Strength and Spirit of Boyhood and Strong Is the New Pretty: A Celebration of Girls Being Themselves;泭both are photography books泭by Kate T. Parker. On each page, a portrait of a child is paired with the childs words about themselves. We treated these images泭as visual texts, pointing out that photos only reveal a small piece of who a person is. We wanted to emphasize to the children that there is more to a person than meets the eye and that this is true for everyone.泭
When it was time for more intimate conversations, we decided to set up shop in the cozy rooma small nook in泭our classroom where we could泭close the泭sheer, gauzy curtain and invite deep focus. These conversations, we intuited, would necessitate泭vulnerability and reflexivity, best served by a degree of privacy. As we had done in October, we once again, we intentionally chose an泭array of materials: the books mentioned above, individual family photo albums (collected泭at the beginning of the year), and a printed picture of each child (also from泭the beginning泭the year). Each picture was attached to a blank canvas and泭could be泭flipped up to reveal泭the泭canvas underneath. Above the small table, where the children sat, we projected pictures of them, taken over the course of the year. While the children took in the photographs, we invited their commentary, using prompts such as泭泭
- When people see or meet you, they can only see things like your face, eyes, and hair. However, they dont see whats inside your beautiful mind and heart. What would you like to share with others about yourself?泭
- What is your story?泭
- What do you care about?泭
- Tell me about some of your strengths. What about some challenges you face?泭
We created泭space and provided泭support for the children to share泭about themselves through their own drawings and words (see Farryns Story below). Then, we listened泭as they worked and took notes, which became our documentation.泭
Farryns Story
There is love inside my heart.泭
I also love ice cream.泭
I like to look at starsit looks like movies: the moon and stars.泭
I love going to the childrens museumit gets my brain excited. My favorite is the climbing structure.羔
I am good at climbing and drawing.泭
I want to learn to run fast. I want to run races like Mama. I was so tired when I was running the race in Arizona. I dont want to be so tired when I run.泭
My favorite thing to play with Finlay is making a pillow pile and playing Floor Is Lava.泭
I dont always like being the big sister because I have to do everything, like today I had to pick up all the toys.泭泭
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We泭end this story as we began, with a note from Sadie. She would like readers to know the following: I have got lots and lots of love. It means I have a lot of cares in my body. Sometimes, I give the caring to people who arent even nice because maybe they are just shy or something.泭
Photographs courtesy of the authors
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References
UNCRC (United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child). 2005. Implementing Child Rights疳n Early Childhood. General Comment No. 7. United National Digital Library..泭
Vaidehi Desai, MEd, holds degrees in泭special education and early childhood education and is a teacher at Newtowne School in Cambridge, Massachusetts. She has worked as a special education and early childhood educator in different settings, including preschools in India and泭the United States. Vaidehis work is deeply rooted in anti-bias education and supportive social learning. This helps her to critically evaluate her practices in the classroom and to develop a strong image of the child, honoring them as valuable citizens with inherent and undeniable rights. [email protected]泭
Margaret Oliver is泭a graduate of Clemson Universitys College of Education. She泭is committed to working with inclusive programs that embrace diversity and equity. She channels her passion for the arts to design engaging activities while integrating these core values into all aspects of her work. Margaret泭is currently a lead prekindergarten teacher at Newtowne School, a Reggio Emilia-inspired program泭in Cambridge, Massachusetts. She is pursuing a masters degree at Boston University in the Curriculum and Teaching Program. [email protected]